Jasmine's thanksgiving banner One of the many gifts of natural learning--sometimes called unschooling--is the ability to initiate and complete a project of one's own choosing. This is complete opposition to way children "learn" in school. Virtually, every moment is directed by the teacher and even when the students have a choice, it is a very limited one. I picture art being taught in a democratic school. The art room is stocked and available to students whenever they want to do art. The teacher is available to help student with technique etc if they ask for it. Isn't this a much more beautiful vision'than what public schools offer our children? To learn more about democratic schools, start by visiting The Sudbury Valley School on-line. They have numerous articles and book chapters to read. Their book A Legacy of Trust: Life After the Sudbury Valley School Experience by Daniel Greenberg and Mimsy Sadofsky was influencial on my path to natural learning. It is a compilation of research and surveys done on graduates of Sudbury Valley School. Reading it helps put to rest any nagging worries about college and adult success for those of us who choose to allow our children to determine their own educations.
Because of her experience with natural learning, Jasmine sometimes comments about art projects she's done at summer camp or Brownies, "They made us do it." She understands already that compulsion is the antithesis of true creativity.
Jasmine went to public school for 4 months last year on her own initiative. And so I found myself entering the school setting for first time in many years. Every day, as I entered campus to pick up Jasmine, the words "passive consumption" came to my mind. I was struck by the way the children just passively sit and consume whatever the teacher tells them. It's strikingly different from a life lived learning in freedom. Left to their own devices children are active initiators of their own learning.
Maybe because I knew the art teacher and watched her struggling with "behavior problems", I was really struck by the incongruity of art being taught in a dictatorial system. Is this really art? Being told when to turn on, when to turn off, and exactly how?
Friday, October 30, 2009
Isn't Art Democratic? The Importance of Self Initiation
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Finding Rhythm
With Jasmine's learning, I have allowed the natural rhythm of her learning unfold and love watching the process. OK, I admit. Sometimes, I worry, "Is she reading at grade level?" "Am I doing enough?" But the universe always leads me to books, blog posts etc that soothe my worries and I am reassured and watch the process unfold. Tonight Jasmine asked to play with Math flashcards, wanting me to drill her on them. She is awesome. She loves math and asks to do it.
And of course through it all, the rhythm of her dance...
Now can I do the same for the rest of life? Allow the rhythms to emerge rather then trying to force them, rather than "I will do this--exercise, clean house, blog, play music, do art etc--every day". This has never really worked for me and instead of realizing that I tend to beat myself up, "should" on myself, and generally make myself miserable. Maybe there is another way. Intend and allow new things coming in my life--like giving birth instead of pushing and killing all the joy, beauty and wonder.
I intend to allow the rhythms that nurture Jasmine and me to come into our lives.
It's fun thinking in rhythms. The rhythms of the seasons. Here in the Sonoran Desert, we have just had a major shift and the weather is gorgeous. Time to play outside and enjoy the sun. And even the larger rhythms like astrological cycles. I'm doing a chart reading tomorrow and I haven't done one in a long time, and so am aware again of these larger patterns in our lives.
Because I belong to a CSA, I'm eating much more seasonally. I've been craving our winter vegetables, esp greens and this week we got baby swiss chard and baby braising greens. Isn't it wonderful.
I'm so thankful this post came out as it did, inspiring rhythm in my life instead of "shoulds".
And now in celebration of the rhythms of life, let's go....
.....into the garden......
This crazy wonderful pomegranate is loaded with soon-to-be-ripe fruit and grew 1/3 it's own size this summer and is flowering and setting another batch of fruit. I have heard pomegranates bear two crops in our ecosystem. What a trooper!!! I guess it didn't mind all the wildflowers I planted around it.
....and producing beautiful flowers
.....and setting them into new fruit
The fall corn is starting to tassle...
...and the winter lettuce is up and going.
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Learning, learning all the time
....and Curve-billed Thrasher
She's also decided to enter a writing contest and is working on her story "How the Banana got it's Shape".
....and is engaging in one of her latest passions--Shakespeare. We just watched Twelfth Night and ordered several more Shakespeare movies from the library. Just can't stop that girl from learning.
....and on the soundtrack of our life Bela Fleck's Africa Sessions, the soundtrack from August Rush, Kimba Arem's Self-Healing with Sound and Music by, lots of Stargirl on CD, and the birds, those lovely glorious birds singing their joy to the world.
Friday, October 9, 2009
Learning Math the Natural Way
The multiplying fruit
Jasmine has always loved math and enjoys playing with it. I was good at math as a child and so have not passed any math anxiety on to her. Math is never "hard" at our house--maybe a "challenge", but challenges are always presented as something fun here. Jasmine sometimes begs me for math problems and fairly often spontaneously comes out with math gems like above. I play games that include math with her sometimes and very occasionally ask her a real life math problem such as "I paid $15.00 for this gas but I only put in $14.15. How much will I get back?" (After some thought, she answered that one correctly.)
I recently read A Mathmatician's Lament by Paul Lockhart and it's been on my mind, probably inspiring this post as much as anything. If you have math anxiety or have children learning math, please read this. It will open your eyes to what math education could be.A musician wakes from a terrible nightmare. In his dream he finds himself in a society where music education has been made mandatory. “We are helping our students become more competitive in an increasingly sound-filled world.” Educators, school systems, and the state are put in charge of this vital project. Studies are commissioned, committees are formed, and decisions are made— all without the advice or participation of a single working musician or composer.
I'm definately thinking about math education differently after reading this.
Since musicians are known to set down their ideas in the form of sheet music, these curious black dots and lines must constitute the “language of music.” It is imperative that students become fluent in this language if they are to attain any degree of musical competence; indeed, it would be ludicrous to expect a child to sing a song or play an instrument without having a thorough grounding in music notation and theory. Playing and listening to music, let alone composing an original piece, are considered very advanced topics and are generally put off until college, and more often graduate school.
As for the primary and secondary schools, their mission is to train students to use this language— to jiggle symbols around according to a fixed set of rules: “Music class is where we take out our staff paper, our teacher puts some notes on the board, and we copy them or transpose them into a different key. We have to make sure to get the clefs and key signatures right, and our teacher is very picky about making sure we fill in our quarter-notes completely. One time we had a chromatic scale problem and I did it right, but the teacher gave me no credit because I had the stems pointing the wrong way.”
In their wisdom, educators soon realize that even very young children can be given this kind of musical instruction. In fact it is considered quite shameful if one’s third-grader hasn’t completely memorized his circle of fifths. “I’ll have to get my son a music tutor. He simply won’t apply himself to his music homework. He says it’s boring. He just sits there staring out the window, humming tunes to himself and making up silly songs.”
In the higher grades the pressure is really on. After all, the students must be prepared for the standardized tests and college admissions exams. Students must take courses in Scales and Modes, Meter, Harmony, and Counterpoint. “It’s a lot for them to learn, but later in college when they finally get to hear all this stuff, they’ll really appreciate all the work they did in high school.”
Of course, not many students actually go on to concentrate in music, so only a few will ever get to hear the sounds that the black dots represent. Nevertheless, it is important that every member of society be able to recognize a modulation or a fugal passage, regardless of the fact that they will never hear one. “To tell you the truth, most students just aren’t very good at music. They are bored in class, their skills are terrible, and their homework is barely legible. Most of them couldn’t care less about how important music is in today’s world; they just want to take the minimum number of music courses and be done with it. I guess there are just music people and non-music people. I had this one kid, though, man was she sensational! Her sheets were impeccable— every note in the right place, perfect calligraphy, sharps, flats, just beautiful. She’s going to make one hell of a musician someday.”.....
Sadly, our present system of mathematics education is precisely this kind of nightmare. In fact, if I had to design a mechanism for the express purpose of destroying a child’s natural curiosity and love of pattern-making, I couldn’t possibly do as good a job as is currently being done— I simply wouldn’t have the imagination to come up with the kind of senseless, soul-crushing ideas that constitute contemporary mathematics education.....(more)
Living our Truth
Jasmine likes to study deeply human nature and the whys and whats and hows of people's behavior. The themes of fitting in and being true to oneself, conformity and individuality have been big for Jasmine this year. Stargirl and Love, Stargirl definitely dive deeply into these topics and she adored them.
She also requested that I read her Max Lucado's You are Special and If Only I had a Green Nose. Both these books deal with how to be true to oneself in a culture that encourages conformity.
I'm rereading Gaia's Garden: A Guide to Homescale Permaculture and learning things I didn't on my last reading. This is a simply amazing book; if you garden or think you might want to garden someday, read it. I'm preparing for a series of three 1 hr talks I'm going to do on sustainability.... and researching Shakespeare movies to order for Jazz from the library and of course playing with living food. And through it all, I'm still "shoulding" on myself, thinking I "should" be cleaning the back patio instead. Is this true? Or could I possibly be true to what is calling me in the moment? YES, that's a resounding Y-E-S.
And on the same theme....We attended an incredible library program with musician Mark Holdaway this afternoon. This guy is absolutely passionate about the Kalimba and inspired the whole audience with his passion and love of what he does. He plays and sells kalimbas and teaches others who want to learn at Kalimba Magic. It was wonderful to see the effect of someone being true to themselves and their passion on others. Jazz is ready to buy a kalimba.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Posting Frenzy
Jasmine started her day eating yellow watermelon while putting together puzzles with her mom. Recently Jasmine has been into jigsaw puzzles. This puzzle phase reminds me of other "educational" phases of reading, writing, and 'rithmetic. A giant leap in ability without "practice makes perfect" phase. Could it be we are confusing children's development with that of adults and even then not allowing for cyclical nature of adult development?
And speaking of the three R's, I prefer the Waldorf three R's: rhythm, reverence, and ritual.
I spent a good chunk of time today finishing a number of half-finished posts I started in September and posting them (Any redundancy in this sentence?). Jasmine watched Ballet Favorites and Mary Poppins and went on adventures around the yard. I gave her my old camera a few weeks ago and she was out and about taking pictures. She's back to playing with the chickens now that the weather is so nice.
And in the inbox today, something so great I just had to share it (from Scott Noelle's THE DAILY GROOVE)
Is Joy Knocking On Your Door?
She knocked on the huge palace door. The peephole cover slid open, revealing the grim face of the palace guard. "Who goes there?"
"I am Joy," she answered with a smile, "I'm here to visit the Queen."
The guard shut the peephole abruptly. A few minutes later, it slid open again and the guard said, "The Queen is upset because her children are misbehaving.You may not enter until conditions improve."
"But I bring good tidings, and if she would let me in, the children would surely abandon their mischief."
"Sorry," the guard grumbled, "I must do Her Majesty's bidding." Then he locked the door and left.
But Joy did not leave . . . She just kept knocking.
Today, if you feel upset for any reason, ask yourself this: "Am I using these conditions as an excuse to disallow my natural state of well-being?" Decide that when JOY knocks on *your* door, you'll let it in... no matter what the conditions!
If you like this, visit Scott Noelle at his website. There's some great articles and you can sign up for free daily e-mails like the one above.
This evening we rode our bikes to the library to return and pick up books. We both had cookbooks in; Jazz got Cookbook for Girls and I, Living Cuisine: The Art and Spirit of Raw Foods by Renee Loux Underkoffler.
And then an impromptu bike ride to the park to watch a baseball game. Jazzie's been wanting to watch one ever since T-ball season. Jasmine enjoyed the game and playing with friends and I got to read my new book.
Came home and perused recipes together and read from Nina Jaffe's The Uninvited Guest and Other Jewish Holiday Tales.
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Writing the Natural Way
In school, writing began with learning to spell simple words. She was expected to write a sentence everyday using a new spelling word (ex The cat sat in a box.) This induced both a concern about spelling correctly but also a crimp in creativity. And I believe it is the root of many people's writing block.
In her own natural process she writes what she is passionate about and plays with how sentences sound and how they go together to create a mood. As she reads more and more the spelling will become more natural and she can write creatively and spell correctly. David Albert wrote in one of his books about his daughters' writing process. He told them at an older age (maybe 11 or 12) that people judge someone who spells incorrectly as stupid irregardless of whether it is true. At this age his girl were ready and motivated to learn to spell correctly. This makes perfect sense; spelling is introduced after much writing has been done not before.
And mom...well I've been helping grandma prepare for her first ever back-packing trip by dehydrating food for the trip including green smoothie fruit leather. I have not yet published my post on green smoothies, but hold tight. Between my living foods and my mom's back-packing food, the dehydrator has been going for days.
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Cooler weather
Today was the first day we collected three eggs from our three chickens. Bess, our Auracana, quit laying during the worst of the heat and Grace (a Wyendott) hadn't begun laying yet. Grace and Gweneviere (a Buff Orpington) laid like troopers through the heat.
I taught Jasmine how to play cribbage today. Cribbage involves a fair bit of adding and I've been waiting to teach her until I thought she was ready. And today was the day. My little math wiz did just fine.
I'm still cleansing my mind of old beliefs. Today I realized that so many of these beliefs center in "not enough". I'm not good enough, I don't do enough, I'm not successful enough, I don't have enough etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. When I look inside myself with curiousity--Who am I?--I find only beauty, joy, and love. I am happy to give up my little nightmare of "not enough".
Friday, August 21, 2009
Gratitude
...and participating in this unschooling journey with Jasmine. It's so heart-opening to watch her bloom at her own pace in her own way. Tonight she is dictating her play into a tape recorder (same one I've been using to record Arnold Patent's book).
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Back in the Posting Saddle Again
Monday, August 10, 2009
More raw snacks and more creativity
I spent lots of time in kitchen again today. I am determined to eat only living food so I am stocking up on raw snack food. Yesterday the dehydrator was full of sweet potato chips and corn and buckwheat crackers and banana fruit leather (to be used for awesome strawberry crepes (recipe here). Today it got filled with sprouted buckwheat, pineapple, blueberry granola bars, sun bread (sunflower, sundried tomatoes, basil, and spices), and coconut green apple wraps. The coconut green apple wraps cracked and are not going to work as wraps but they are so delicious I'm eating them like crazy.
This evening I played with SoulCollage cards. I started the "I am the one that" exercise. It was powerful and wonderful but I think for it to sustain I need to keep working with the cards.
Jasmine found a picture of three capes in a Waldorf toy catalog we found as cleaning and organizing continued at our house this morning. She was so inspired by the capes she decided to write a play and then perform it with two of her friends (they don't know about this yet). She's finding costumes and creating costumes and figuring out the storyline and dialogue. She expressed to me today she would like to type it up on the computer and print it out. She off and running and it was all inspired by a picture of capes in a catalog.
Costumes
and shoes.
Since we watched the movie "David", Jazz has developed a strong interest in the biblical David. At her request, I ordered every David book the library had that went beyond the "David and Goliath" story (2). We are almost through the first one and Jasmine has decided that Bathsheeba is the perfect name for her character in the play she is creating.
Friday, July 31, 2009
More and more reading
I've been ordering workout videos from the library that are dance oriented (e.g Sizzling Salsa, Ballroom Body Blast, Tahiatian Hip Hop etc) and trying them out. It's been really hot and since swim team is over for the year I haven't been working out at the community center. So far Jazz and I have loved one of them-- The Goddess Workout: Intro to Bellydance. Jazz did the whole thing with me. She also led me in a workout of her own design.
My workout instructor
Sunday, July 26, 2009
I'm back
The electricity went out last Sunday afternoon and didn't come on again until Tuesday morning. As the lows were about 90 and the highs close to 110 it was an experience. We hosed off the porch on Monday morning as it needed cleaning after chickens and some construction work on the street in front of house. We then turned on the mister and sat and enjoyed playing UNO until the mail lady came by and told us it could be up to 7 days before the power came back on. Apparently there was a huge storm north of Gila Bend and somewhere in the neighborhood of 100 power poles were snapped in two. Wow! Well we moved into emergency preparedness zone and picked up some of the free dry ice they were handing out for the refridgerator and freezer, ate up our ice cream, and went to check on a house-bound neighbor. What a hot adventure! The power came on the next morning thanks to the hard work of the APS crew and I have been appreciating air conditioning like never before.
An Egyptian princess surviving the heat with misters
Since then my computer time has been spent binging on a couple of e-mail lists. I'm a member of the radicalunschoolingwithLOA and have been for a while but I haven't checked in on them for many months. I love this group and through my perusing this week I found another group that is a breakoff group from the RU/LOA called Unschoolingmiracles. How simply beautiful. I am so greatful for finding this group. More than once I have done a search for "unschooling, A Course in Miracles" and never really found anything and now a whole group of wonderful people I completely admire. Thank you universe.
It is especially very timely because this week I have been really putting time into letting go of limiting thoughts and beliefs. This has been a topic on the list and I feel less alone in this adventure and learned of a new process that really spoke to me--The Presence Process by Michael Brown. I just ordered his book from the library and also 2 others inspired by the list Arnold Patent's You can have it all and Joe Vitale's Zero Limits, which I was able to get on CD. Here's to listening while I create a Space of Love within my home.
Here's a few neat things that came my way this week:
A Mathematician’s Lament by Paul Lockhart A mathematician laments the way Math is taught in schools. Really good read. Well at least the first page that I read and I do want to finish it sometime soon.
This is a very well done short documentary on the history of schooling in our country.
And another fun movie, this is some absolutely beautiful sand art.
Yesterday was Learn Nothing Day, a holiday to show how hard it is to actually not learn anything. For an amazing post on Learn Nothing Day, go here.
Saturday, July 18, 2009
getting ready for big day in city
Jazz's reading skills are increasing and today she read to me and to grandma from Little Pear (a cute book about a boy in rural China at turn of century). When she figures out a more difficult word on her own she gets so excited she squeals and kisses me over and over. It is so fun to participate in this sheer joy of learning that could never happen within the school system.
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Thinking about Science Education
Just from having heard Mind of a Raven and not having done the canned science and having the time and space to explore her world, I think Jasmine at 7, is miles ahead (in science)of what I was at anytime during my school career.
I just ran into a paragraph from post an ephinany of the educational kind from Quotidian that brings to my random musings solidity and now I can post this.
Science increasingly found its way into the curriculum to replace the languages, but as many excellent thinkers had prophesied, science as a school subject can't fill a formative goal. No child knows enough math to do "real" science and so he ends up memorizing a bunch of second-hand information that he can never test for himself, and performing contrived demonstrations which are called experiments. Real science can only be evoked in the lower years through nature study and development of the habit of observation.
That's what was at the tip of my thoughts "real science can only be evoked in the lower years through nature study and the development of the habit of observation." Thanks Willa.
Happy Birthday, USA
Jazz and Grandma headed off for evening festivities together. It's rare but good for both of them to spend time together. I really don't enjoy the fireworks celebration and I got time to play music and play on the computer and even make pesto.
Oh my and these keep multiplying